Who among you said that sharing is loving? But it doesn’t mean that we also with boyfriends and girlfriends, ahhh!!! …. For sure you own the must crooked reasoning ever.
Thinking that in our generation, guys and gals are patronizing liberal thinking, open relationship is already a common case among young lovers. This denotes a relationship in which couples agree to date other prospects while they are not yet marriage. Despite the fact that our conservative society strongly negates this practice among women, men on the other hand are almost given special treatment by forgiving them if they are guilty of having multiple partners. This, they say; is because; is because men are polygamous by nature. There it is acceptable that love another, while committed to the another.
However, I stand that this should be practice no more. Live for the present. For me are now jamming to the music of the new millenium, we should take that as a cue
that gone are the days of Abraham. Polygamy was only justifiable in the old Testament. They were allowed to do so in order to a more production of children. The fact during that time here are lesser population and they were asked to go to the world and multiply.
Now, you might just argue that we are not talking about married people here. In fact , not just yet. But remember a man who got used to smoking, even if he got “over” with it, he would surely light a cigarette occasionally for pleasure. What the man was so used to do when he was not yet married is what he would still practice even after he ties the knot with his bride. The point is , so that a man would not be tempted of having other women aside from his wife in the future, he should be forbidden of having other girlfriends aside from his partner as early as steady days.
Collect, collect and then select. To some or perhaps, to many liberated young men, this could be the most practical way of looking for the best girlfriend. They court and date two. Three or more ladies at the same time, and apparently choose who among those ladies satisfies them most. What is this, and audition? By doing this practice men are being ignorant of the consequence of their action. Ironically, they do not realize that while they are enjoying important things of the manhood: DIGNITY, MYSTERY and TRUE LOVE .
First, we discuss dignity. A man who practices infidelity is never worthy of honor for he does not have the strength to fight temptations. Therefore he is nothing but a weakling. Second, when go date a couple of “chicks” around a very small world, you hastily throw your magnetic appeal away because you are now considered” just one of the guys”, nothing special . On being public, you waste every inch of mystery in you. Lastly, while having numerous girlfriends, a man would more likely than not have misconceptions as to whether he is really in love or just into a romance fancy in a particular relationship. So that when the time comes that he has to choose, physical pleasures oust emotional feelings from ruling, and unfortunately , he loves the ability to identify true love . It is never a practical way if you lose more than you can afford. And besides, how practical is this when in fact you only waste time and effort in working with relationship which do not have a future anyway?
Finally, this is not an issue of equality between men and women anymore. But this is an issue about commitment. You see when you commit yourself to relationship, you devote your love to that one person alone. But if you venture to other romance other than your partner’s, then you are not truly committed. And if there is no commitment, there is no point to the relationship for what is there for both of you to work for.
Thinking that in our generation, guys and gals are patronizing liberal thinking, open relationship is already a common case among young lovers. This denotes a relationship in which couples agree to date other prospects while they are not yet marriage. Despite the fact that our conservative society strongly negates this practice among women, men on the other hand are almost given special treatment by forgiving them if they are guilty of having multiple partners. This, they say; is because; is because men are polygamous by nature. There it is acceptable that love another, while committed to the another.
However, I stand that this should be practice no more. Live for the present. For me are now jamming to the music of the new millenium, we should take that as a cue
that gone are the days of Abraham. Polygamy was only justifiable in the old Testament. They were allowed to do so in order to a more production of children. The fact during that time here are lesser population and they were asked to go to the world and multiply.
Now, you might just argue that we are not talking about married people here. In fact , not just yet. But remember a man who got used to smoking, even if he got “over” with it, he would surely light a cigarette occasionally for pleasure. What the man was so used to do when he was not yet married is what he would still practice even after he ties the knot with his bride. The point is , so that a man would not be tempted of having other women aside from his wife in the future, he should be forbidden of having other girlfriends aside from his partner as early as steady days.
Collect, collect and then select. To some or perhaps, to many liberated young men, this could be the most practical way of looking for the best girlfriend. They court and date two. Three or more ladies at the same time, and apparently choose who among those ladies satisfies them most. What is this, and audition? By doing this practice men are being ignorant of the consequence of their action. Ironically, they do not realize that while they are enjoying important things of the manhood: DIGNITY, MYSTERY and TRUE LOVE .
First, we discuss dignity. A man who practices infidelity is never worthy of honor for he does not have the strength to fight temptations. Therefore he is nothing but a weakling. Second, when go date a couple of “chicks” around a very small world, you hastily throw your magnetic appeal away because you are now considered” just one of the guys”, nothing special . On being public, you waste every inch of mystery in you. Lastly, while having numerous girlfriends, a man would more likely than not have misconceptions as to whether he is really in love or just into a romance fancy in a particular relationship. So that when the time comes that he has to choose, physical pleasures oust emotional feelings from ruling, and unfortunately , he loves the ability to identify true love . It is never a practical way if you lose more than you can afford. And besides, how practical is this when in fact you only waste time and effort in working with relationship which do not have a future anyway?
Finally, this is not an issue of equality between men and women anymore. But this is an issue about commitment. You see when you commit yourself to relationship, you devote your love to that one person alone. But if you venture to other romance other than your partner’s, then you are not truly committed. And if there is no commitment, there is no point to the relationship for what is there for both of you to work for.
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