“Your luckier than I am…… blaaah!!!! blaaah!!!!! Blaaaah!!!!, are usual word which I always hear from my mom’s mouth. Sounds irritating right? I supposed you do hear or experience the same thin, “ sermons” (sermon of the mount as a name it). From your mother every time you violate her rules. But, I know one thing is for sure, more often than not; what runs in our mind is this “ Naaah!!! who cares, Your time is far different from our time.” Teenager’s don’t give a damn on what they’re nagging about.
Studies shows that we tend to act in such irritating and outraging manner to our parents and to other grown-ups, the fact that our frontal lobe( a portion of each cerebral hemisphere in front of the central fissure; and responsible for voluntary movement) is still developing.
In my stand, grown-ups need not treat us in such a ruthless manner. As a teenager myself, I hate being told( indeed, honestly speaking) because when they do such; it seems that they don’t enough trust on me. I feel that I am a prisoner; prisoner whose not give a chance to practice his right, the right to speak out and express himself. I want to voice out my point yet I know my limitations, I know when to react and when to shut my mouth and keep still. What I want to point out is that I want them not to be strict and on the other hand not to be lenient also.
Teenager nowadays are kinda hard headed. They love to negate with other people’s( especially grown-ups decision. No wonder why these teenager who are told by their parents became wild rebellions and less affectionate. Teenagers are hard to discern, unpredictable and adult will just scratch their heads(“Lisod Ispelingon” as what they commonly describe us)
Teenagers are imitative. They love to imitate other people. They idolize famous figures such as actors, actresses, singers, band members, basketball players, any famous player in different fields. Teenagers are explorers and most of the things they explore violates parental rules such as smoking cigarettes for instance are some of the things they’re experimenting for curiosity sake.
If you want to be hip and be part of the famous group in your campus; you must have with you the latest gadgets: latest phone models, MP4’s, Ipod’s and many others that are “In” in the market today; you must listen to alternatives, reggae, rock music, that soothes also the taste of your peers. Teens need to spend lots of cash here and there, to look trendy and cool.
What’s the most serious problem that involves teenagers is juvenile delinquency, they were put to jail because of committing crimes which most of the time the reason is using of illegal drugs. These teens are really not thinking of the consequence that in the end will only suffer.
I have a fresh memory of my mother’s daily words every morning, “ Your luckier than I am, when I was your age. I used to wake up at 4:00a.m. to prepare my food and things in going to school. I brought with me a piece of camote for my snacks and look at you! I gave you all the delicious things you asked for” with my mother’s sermons, though it irritates, I learned a lot from her experiences and I come up to a comparison and I have come to realize that I’m lucky. I have parents who always give me good moral values and incomparable parental love.
For your information, little ladies and little gentlemen, It's our little word indeed yet we will not be present here in these earth not because of our parents.
In my stand, grown-ups need not treat us in such a ruthless manner. As a teenager myself, I hate being told( indeed, honestly speaking) because when they do such; it seems that they don’t enough trust on me. I feel that I am a prisoner; prisoner whose not give a chance to practice his right, the right to speak out and express himself. I want to voice out my point yet I know my limitations, I know when to react and when to shut my mouth and keep still. What I want to point out is that I want them not to be strict and on the other hand not to be lenient also.
Teenager nowadays are kinda hard headed. They love to negate with other people’s( especially grown-ups decision. No wonder why these teenager who are told by their parents became wild rebellions and less affectionate. Teenagers are hard to discern, unpredictable and adult will just scratch their heads(“Lisod Ispelingon” as what they commonly describe us)
Teenagers are imitative. They love to imitate other people. They idolize famous figures such as actors, actresses, singers, band members, basketball players, any famous player in different fields. Teenagers are explorers and most of the things they explore violates parental rules such as smoking cigarettes for instance are some of the things they’re experimenting for curiosity sake.
If you want to be hip and be part of the famous group in your campus; you must have with you the latest gadgets: latest phone models, MP4’s, Ipod’s and many others that are “In” in the market today; you must listen to alternatives, reggae, rock music, that soothes also the taste of your peers. Teens need to spend lots of cash here and there, to look trendy and cool.
What’s the most serious problem that involves teenagers is juvenile delinquency, they were put to jail because of committing crimes which most of the time the reason is using of illegal drugs. These teens are really not thinking of the consequence that in the end will only suffer.
I have a fresh memory of my mother’s daily words every morning, “ Your luckier than I am, when I was your age. I used to wake up at 4:00a.m. to prepare my food and things in going to school. I brought with me a piece of camote for my snacks and look at you! I gave you all the delicious things you asked for” with my mother’s sermons, though it irritates, I learned a lot from her experiences and I come up to a comparison and I have come to realize that I’m lucky. I have parents who always give me good moral values and incomparable parental love.
For your information, little ladies and little gentlemen, It's our little word indeed yet we will not be present here in these earth not because of our parents.
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